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Saturday, September 19, 2015

Not Another Parent Night!

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Are you thinking, Oh No!!! Another parent night, what am I going to do? Do you stay up worrying the night before?, or feel butterflies in your stomach? Are you self conscious about getting up and speaking in front of parents? Well, if you answered yes to any of these questions, you’re not alone.

My teaching partner and I came up with a way to make parent night fun for everyone, including ourselves, since neither of us likes to get up in front of an audience, other than our classroom, lol!

It happened one afternoon, after the kids had gone home.  We wanted to do something different for parent night.  Suddenly, the phrase, “Actions speak louder than words,” came into my head, and I had an ah ha! moment. Why not show parents what our program is like instead of telling them.  That’s how our Parent Night Video Program began. 

We prepared for the taping by making sure we got the go ahead from the principal as well as all the teachers who work with our students. Next we let our classes in on it, and they just loved the idea.

When the appointed day arrived, we were at the front door, camcorder in hand, to tape them as soon as they got off the bus. We were  greeted with waves and hellos as they entered the building and proceeded to their homerooms.

Mostly, we recorded  the kids, but we also wanted to show our teaching style so the parents could get to know us a little. We went back and forth between rooms creating a short video of both. This can be tricky because the kids were alone for a few minutes just about every period. It’s amazing how much you learn about yourself and your charges when you watch yourself teach. We always made sure that we captured each child doing something, we never wanted anyone to feel left out, or for any parent to say, "I didn't see my Sally."

After period one ended, which was either history or science, we’d escort them to Unified Arts, taping while walking. Some of them would be sewing, others would be doing woodwork, art, or metal shop. Again we would go back and forth between classes doing our filming. Parents loved to see them in action, we’d hear “oohs and ahhs,” as they saw their little ones using power equipment, or sewing machines, and cleaning up after themselves. They were in amazed at the types of things the kids did, especially in metal/wood shop, without losing fingers or limbs. 

When Unified Arts were over, we would tape either English or math classes, continuing to make sure that everyone was included.

At the end of a busy morning, we'd switch groups and get ready for lunch. which was a real trip. We filmed them going through the lunch line and showed the cafeteria staff serving their food. Watching their child eat, and what they threw away was eye opening for many parents.


Back to class to continue taping either math, english, world history or science classes.  As the day drew to a close, you could still see us taping the children while in homeroom study period. and as their buses were being announced over the loudspeaker.  Our ending statement says it all, “The last bus has been called, the room is empty, and quiet and sometimes we like it like that.” We always get chuckles from the parents because they can relate.

Our final step, before parent night, was to send notes home letting them know that they will be viewing a  presentation of,  A Day in the Life of their Child. Then we do some edits.

During the day of parent night, the class got to see the final production. They were treated to popcorn or some type of snack and we'd all sit back to watch ourselves in action. 

Parent night finally arrived and our production was ready for viewing. We would introduce it and tell them that the video will probably answer every question that they might have and it usually did. Jokingly we called ourselves Marin & Filipek DeMille, after the Hollywood director Cecil B. DeMille and the parents had a chuckle over that. The ice had been broken and we were ready to begin.

Of course, there were times when the unexpected happened, like the video player wasn't working, or we couldn't find the TV that we signed up for. We’re all human, and these things occur. We took it in our stride and the parents were understanding. Eventually, we got everything up and running and all were happy.


The best part was to watch the reactions of the parents as they watched their kiddos in action. They marveled at how busy they were and how much work was accomplished throughout the day. Most had never seen how their child behaves in school and they just loved this. Better still, they realized what a difficult job we, as teachers have trying to tame these middle school children.



At the end of the film, we have received standing ovations, as the parents are thrilled with what they’ve just seen. We’ve made a great impression and we can rest a bit easier knowing that we’ve completed a successful parent night.


Deann


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Tuesday, September 8, 2015

Discipline with Love


I’ll never forget the book I read back in college called, Discipline Without Tears, by Dr. Rudolf Dreikurs. “It provides a clear, constructive outline of his proven strategies for dealing with a wide range of childhood misbehaviors. Believing that children are social beings who want to belong, Dreikurs stresses encouragement, cooperation, and firm control in a democratic alliance of parents, teachers and children." Dreiker’s book has had a long lasting effect on me and my discipline techniques were based on what he said and I would highly recommend reading it.

I can’t express enough that one of the worst things a teacher can do is to prejudge a class or a student before they even enter the room. Let’s face it, some kids get along better with some teachers than they do with others, so it’s better to listen but with a grain of salt and make your own judgment.  I once had a young man come into my class with a really bad reputation, I was told that he had a bad attitude, didn’t listen, and yada yada yada yada. Needless to say, this boy was one of my favorite students. Sure he was talkative and questioned everything, he fooled around, but I loved his personality and sense of humor. He was an excellent student, a hard worker, and really cared about learning. What more could I ask for. His parents were, however, going through a divorce, and I always took this into consideration when working with him.



Tip # 1
Let your students know that you care about them. Talk to them, find out what is
going on in their lives. Are they from a broken home, did one of their parents die, are they going through a divorce, is there drug abuse in their family? There are so many reasons why children act out and these are only a few. I always try to put myself in their shoes and know that if I was going through some of the things that they’re dealing with I wouldn’t be able to concentrate or listen during class. I’d be thinking about the pain that I was going through. Many times kids will act out because they need attention, that they don’t receive at home. You might be the only one who takes the time to listen. This is why I love holding morning meetings. They can get what might be bothering them off their chests and be able to settle down for the rest of the day. It will make your life and theirs so much easier. Once the kids realize that you are there for them and you have their best interests in mind, they will do anything that you want, which includes appropriate behavior. 


Tip #2
I’ve found that the kids want discipline, they want to follow rules, this helps to make them feel safe and secure. They like knowing what is expected of them. Ask what would happen if there were no rules. Most of them will say that nothing would get done, or that there would be chaos with everyone doing what they wanted. Then spend time setting up classroom rules with them. Ask for ideas, write them on the board, then vote for the ones that you all think are important. Help them to come up with consequences for their actions. This way, the kids will be heard, they will be making their own rules and most will follow them. 



Tip #3
Be fair, set up consequences that fit the crime so to speak. Make sure that all of the children are treated the same way. One rule that I’ve found to be very effective is 3 strikes and you’re out. If you have to talk to a child 3 times during one period, there is a consequence, if he/she misses 3 home works in a semester, there is a consequence, if he or she is disrespectful, or bothers another child, there is a
consequence, and so on. Be consistent, don’t give them chance after chance, they know the rules and if they choose not to follow them, it is their decision. 

NEVER show favoritism, the rules are for everyone. Let’s face it, we’re all human, we like some kids more than others, the trick is not to let them know. We don’t want to hear, ”Mrs. Smith likes Johnny better than me. He can do anything he wants and never gets in trouble.  Be firm, don’t raise your voice, let them know that you are in control in a kind and loving way.


Tip #4
Keep in close contact with parents and or guardians.  Parents want to know when their little one has broken a rule, but they also like to hearwhen they have shown good behavior, have aced a test, have done a fantastic job on their homework, or have been kind to another student. Send a happy gram home, let everyone know how pleased you are. This helps to establish a good rapport with both parents and kids. They will know you care and will realize that you want what is best for everyone involved. It will make your life so much easier.

After grading a test, I will write a note to the student about their how they did. Even if they fail, I will always write something positive


Tip #5

Lets say that Joey is a very needy child who constantly requires your attention, he is disruptive, causes arguments with others, can be a bully, you know the type. Sometimes the best way to deal with this behavior is to ignore it, and you need to teach the rest of the class to do this by rewarding them for not paying attention to him.  Peer pressure can truly be effective since everyone wants to be accepted. If the rest of the class really gets disgusted with Joey, some of them may actually talk with him about his actions, and this is more effective than you having to say something. This technique will work if the kids know that you care for them and are fair because their ultimate goal is to learn..

I've created a behavior modification bundle that can be utilized in a way to effectively help with discipline problems. 


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I hope some of my tips for a well behaved classroom will help you to have a great year.

Deann



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RCL


Monday, September 7, 2015

Tips for a Well Behaved Classroom-Sharing is Caring Teacher Blogging Collaborative

By Deann Marin of Socrates Lantern


Do you want to turn this years group into a Dream Class?


One of the most difficult jobs that a teacher has is to develop discipline techniques that will be effective for their classroom. These seasoned educators from our Caring is Sharing Collaborative have been there and done that. Read what they have to say about the subject.


By Megan Bodman of Adventures Teaching 4th
Using Whole Brain Teaching to create a well behaved classroom is a "no brainer." I've got 5 tips that will help your class be well behaved no matter the situation.


By Marypat Mahoney of Just Add Students
Looking for help with classroom management? Check out these 5 simple tips.


By Kathie Yonemura of Tried and True Teaching Tools
5-1/2 tried and true tips/resources to help your students focus on the positive behaviors.  



By Deann Marin of Socrates Lantern


I’ll never forget the book I read back in college called, Discipline Without Tears, by Dr. Rudolf Dreikurs. “It provides a clear, constructive outline of his proven strategies for dealing with a wide range of childhood misbehaviors. Believing that children are social beings who want to belong, Dreikurs stresses encouragement, cooperation, and firm control in a democratic alliance of parents, teachers and children."




By Retta London of Rainbow City Learning

How to turn this year's class list into a group of dream students.



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Monday, August 31, 2015

5 Tips for New Teachers and Everyone Else

By Deann Marin of Socrates Lantern



As veteran teachers, we all remember what it was like when we walked into our first classroom. So, in this week's blog hop, from Sharing is Caring Teacher Blogging Collaborative, we've decided to share some tips with you.

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By Kathie Yonemura of Tried and True Teaching Tools
5 "tried and true" teaching tips for new teachers. All that I wished someone had told me in the beginning!



By Marcy Howe of It's a Teacher Thing

Tips for new teachers and great reminder for the rest of us targets advice for survival in the classroom. Veteran teachers discuss their hard-earned expertise on making it through the early years of teaching.



By Retta London of Rainbow City Learning

Five things I wish I could tell to my new teacher self when I started my career.




By Deann Marin of Socrates Lantern
One of the first things that I learned in college was to be nice to the custodian. He or she is your best friend.

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Monday, August 24, 2015

How to Communicate Effectively with Parents

By Deann Marin of Socrates Lantern




If you feel uncomfortable talking to parents, these creative educators have some sage advice for you. Read on to see how they deal with the subject.




Parent Communication: The Good, the Bad, and Everything Else!

Family communication makes for a smooth year! 4 "tried and true" tools that are must-haves! 




Communicating With Parents in a Caring Classroom


Ways to include parents as you build caring relationships in your classroom community.



How to Get and Keep Parents on Your Side


One of the main things that I realized, after years of teaching is that parents need you to care about their child, they want you to make their learning experience interesting, challenging and fun.


First Week of School Must-Do's
By Marcy Howe of It's a Teacher Thing


Read a veteran teacher's top eight tip for the first week of school. Set the stage for a great year and make positive connections with families.




Please take a look at more tips from these fabulous teachers in our Sharing is Caring Teacher Blogging Collaborative